That's interesting, I just used an ISO adaptor and an aerial adaptor and it worked fine! The only problem I had was the provision for fitting the brackets to the player is crap and I ended up riveting the brackets to it
I'll check the electrical connections next time I have the dash off. I noticed that there is one wire in the loom which the head unit doesn't use. Maybe this is the earth?
BG
it doesnt ground throught the aerial, it grounds on the metal bracket that the head unit bolts to.