got it sorted my dealership charged me 160 for the keys to be recoded, phoned local locksmith to see if he would recode my car and he said he could but wouldnt do it so i was just like fine went to nissan got them to do it but due to the headunit not being the exact part for the car and being a different part number they couldnt configure it but the secure lock has dissapeared just need to get software to update the headunit and configure it myself so that it reckognises the speakers that are installed ect