on stock recirculation valves with the output plumbed into the turbo inlet, they should always be open whenever the line is in vacuum, basically whenever the throttles closed. so if you peak through the valve port while the engines idling, the valve should be open and when you reduce the manifold vacuum towards or beyond ambient pressure by opening the throttle, the valve should close.
dump or bov on the other hand i have no experience with. maybe they have spring preload set so that at idle with low vacuum, the valve stays shut to prevent the engine basically sucking in unfiltered dirty air during idle and would only open when there's a higher than normal manifold vacuum such as a closed throttle above idle rev so the boost that's built up in front of the closed throttle is released.
if this spring preload is adjustable, maybe urs was set too hard so the valve only begins to open from a higher pressure (rather than just above ambient) hence potentially causing the boost surge sound.