is that not for the facelift?
in haynes and on my 98 slx it's the 2 lower left pins.
#looks at haynes#
ah looking at the relative vertical notches, the facelift connector must be upside down to the pre-facelift
anyway, noting those vertical notch feature on the connector, if the pattern of the pins are like -> :|::|::|:: then you short the lower left two
if the pattern is like -> ::|::|::|: then you short the upper right two pins.