not taking sides..but from what i read i think its abit off, but thats my opion and how people go about there bissnus is no of mine! everyone handles there diffrently...
It could have been worse. Payment could have been cashed and goods not sent, but I can see your frustration from the thread also. One of the reason's paypal is good - as there's no messing about waiting for money to be posted or cleared etc.